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EPISODE · Jan 19, 2026 · 6 MIN

Monday Muse #48 - The Real Reason Confident Women Still Feel Self-Conscious

from The Intuition Incubator · host Abby Havermann

From the outside, you’re doing everything right.You’re capable, respected, and trusted to lead.And yet, you monitor yourself, replay moments, and wonder how you landed where you did.  It’s subtle, constant, and draining.In this episode, I talk about how to stop being self conscious without shutting yourself down or pretending you don’t care. We look at why self-consciousness shows up most often in people who have influence, how to tell the difference between healthy awareness and unnecessary self-scrutiny, and what helps you step back into presence when your inner spotlight gets too bright.This isn’t about confidence hacks or positive thinking.It’s about loosening the grip of an old internal pattern so you can lead, relate, and live with more ease.If you’ve ever felt confident and exposed at the same time, this conversation will land. Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Self-Consciousness00:42 Understanding Types of Self-Consciousness02:18 Steps to Combat Self-Consciousness03:49 Embracing Discomfort and Moving Forward05:09 Conclusion and Call to Action HIRE ME TO SPEAK:👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

From the outside, you’re doing everything right. You’re capable, respected, and trusted to lead. And yet, you monitor yourself, replay moments, and wonder how you landed where you did. It’s subtle, constant, and draining. In this episode, I talk about how to stop being self conscious without shutting yourself down or pretending you don’t care. We look at why self-consciousness shows up most often in people who have influence, how to tell the difference between healthy awareness and unnecessary self-scrutiny, and what helps you step back into presence when your inner spotlight gets too bright. This isn’t about confidence hacks or positive thinking. It’s about loosening the grip of an old internal pattern so you can lead, relate, and live with more ease. If you’ve ever felt confident and exposed at the same time, this conversation will land.

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