Moral Clarity

Dear Permission to be Powerful Reader,I know what I am willing to fight for. Willing to die for.What I won’t let slide.No more being invisible.No pretending it didn’t happen.No living in denial.Enough is enough.Moral clarity makes life simple.No confusion.No debate. No exceptions. Truth doesn’t negotiate. Nobody can dictate your reality.And no one has the right to tell you what you’re worth. You know what you’re worth.What your dignity is worth. What your loyalty is worth. What your time is worth. Lies won’t fly.You deserve better. No man who lies shall live in my house.Bullies must go. No more hot and cold.No more one-sided dynamics.No more people who treat you like chopped liver…Like you sleep in a kennel.No more manipulators.No more gaslighters.No violence of any kind. I don’t care if they’re drop-dead gorgeous with a million in the bank.Betray me, and you’re gone.The games are finally OVER.But why?Why so harsh?Because I failed my way to the top. Because I finally learned my lesson. I know better.Because now I have something that many do not.Moral clarity.Most people live by consensus.They lick their finger and test the wind.If standing your ground makes them unpopular, they fold.Most people do not have the courage to be disliked.To disappoint.To make others uncomfortable.Above all:Don’t abandon yourself.Not ever.Even if it’s inconvenient.Especially when it’s inconvenient.Don’t confuse martyrdom…Or compromise…With virtue.People talk about values—Until those values cost them something.Then you find out what they really believe. Whether they have a spine or not.Moral clarity makes life simple…But it’s not easy.It means saying no to people you love.It means having the courage to walk away.When it would be easier to keep your mouth shut and stay small.Most people abandoned themselves a long time ago.Their lives don’t resemble their dreams.Or their values.Excuses are so much easier.So is blame.What cause would you give all your money to?What would make you quit your job and never look back, no matter the cost?What would you do if you had nothing left to lose?At the end of the day, what are you going to tolerate?Who will you be when nobody’s looking?Food for thought.Until next time,— Tony (Yes, it’s Tony now, live with it.) Dancer, Writer, Buddhist.Permission to be Powerful is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.antonvolney.com/subscribe