More Than Words – We Give Freely

We Give Freely Have you ever let anger, pride, or offense write a chapter of your story you wish you could erase? In 1 Samuel 25, we meet three people who respond to conflict in three very different ways: Nabal, who hoards; David, who reacts; and Abigail, who gives. Their story asks us a simple but powerful question—when this season of your life is retold, what kind of story will it be? This week, Pastor David unpacks how generosity isn’t just about what we give—it’s about the kind of person we become. Because generosity doesn’t just change what you give; it changes the story your life tells.  1 Samuel 25 Discussion topics Icebreaker - In every season, you’ll meet a Nabal, need an Abigail, and battle the David within you. The question isn’t which one you admire — it’s which one you’re becoming. Scripture Reflection (Read 1 Samuel 25:2-11) a. What stands out to you about Nabal’s attitude and response? b. Where do you see a “Nabal mindset” show up in our culture today — or even in your own life? How does entitlement or fear keep us from being generous?  Practical Application - Think about a moment recently when you had to choose between reacting in anger or responding in wisdom. What did you learn from it? Where might God be calling you to live more generously — not just with money, but with your words, time, or grace? Personal Reflection (Read 1 Samuel 25:12-13 & 21-22) a. David went from patience (with Saul) to rage (with Nabal) in a single chapter. Why do you think that happened? b. When have you found yourself “strapping on your sword” — reacting instead of responding? What helps you pause before you make a decision that might write a story you’ll regret?  Next Steps - Who is someone that God has placed on your heart to be an Abigail to?  Will you take time and intentionally invite them to sit with you during At The Movies?  Check out our other audio series and video playlists that can help you find Jesus in every moment and then discover what's next