MOST MEN WERE NEVER TAUGHT HOW TO HEAL//Ep18 Healed To Lead w/ Kevin Overton-Hadnot

Are you leading… or are you just surviving?In this episode of Healed to Lead, we unpack how the very survival skills that helped you succeed — hypervigilance, overworking, people-pleasing, control — may now be limiting your growth as a man and as a leader.Many men were taught to provide, protect, and perform.But few were taught how to regulate their nervous system, set boundaries without guilt, or separate identity from achievement.From a clinical lens, we explore:How hypervigilance shows up as micromanagement and burnoutHow people-pleasing hides behind reliability and over-functioningThe difference between Survival Mode and Leadership ModeWhy high performers are often activated — not calmHow awareness creates the power to choose differentlyWe also respond to a listener struggling with comparison and feeling “behind” in life — a silent pressure many men carry.This episode isn’t about softening men.It’s about grounding them.If this resonates, share it with a man who leads from pressure but longs for peace.Like, subscribe, and join the conversation as we redefine strength, leadership, and healing — together.#HealedToLead #MensGrowth #LeadershipDevelopment #TraumaInformedLeadership #MensMentalHealth