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What if the real problem in your relationship is how each person thinks about growth?In this episode, Kevin asks Alan direct questions about a pattern he sees again and again while coaching couples. They talk about why partners can feel out of sync, how belief in yourself affects effort and results, and what happens when one person is moving forward faster than the other. Alan shares lessons from years of working with real couples, and Kevin challenges the ideas in real time so listeners can understand what this means for their own lives.If you want a stronger relationship and a clearer future together, this conversation will make you think. Decide whether you are building forward or standing still._______________________Learn more about:📅 Join the next free Relationship Talks Virtual Event #56 on Thursday, February 19th, 2026, at 05:00 pm Eastern Time: "Getting on the Same Page About Failing Forward" -  https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/UnfUPVhAT6OYQ0i72mEg7QBook Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session_______________________NLU is not just a podcast; it’s a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey.For more information, check out our website and socials using the links below. 👇Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.comInstagram:Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/Facebook:Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazarosKevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/Email:[email protected]@nextleveluniverse.comLinkedIn:Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/_______________________Show notes:(2:27) Growth mindset Vs. Fixed mindset mismatch(4:24) Real coaching example of partner conflict(7:07) Why belief determines long-term success(14:07) How to identify mindset differences together(21:55) Courage to address feeling held back(24:57) OutroSend a text to Kevin and Alan! 🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan LazarosNext Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.