Moving Abroad Forces You To Meet Yourself, with Kenneth Webb

Send us Fan MailLove gets complicated fast when the two of you cannot rely on the same unwritten rules. One person hears “seven o’clock” and thinks seven. The other hears “seven” and means “seven-ish.” That tiny gap can turn into real frustration, real conflict, and sometimes a hard look in the mirror. We sit down with Kenneth Webb, a US citizen who retired to Peru and found himself learning the daily realities of expat life the messy, human way. We talk about “Peruvian time,” why “close” can mean 25 minutes, and how punctuality, respect, and dating expectations collide across cultures. Kenneth shares candid stories from his own relationships, including what it feels like to plan something thoughtful and end up sitting alone when plans unravel. Along the way, we explore how different norms around reciprocity, gender roles, and communication can create misunderstandings even when no one is trying to be cruel. The deeper thread is deception and trust. Kenneth explains the emotional truth behind his novel Trapped in Deception, built from real people and real messages, and why betrayal is so hard to shake when honesty is one of your core values. We also dig into practical challenges of retiring abroad: assumptions that Americans are wealthy, being charged more as a foreigner, building an expat support system, staying grounded through community and faith, and doing real research before making a big move. If you are thinking about moving abroad, dating cross-culturally, or simply want a more honest lens on relationships and self-knowledge, this conversation will give you language for what you are feeling. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway.Connect With Kenneth Webb:Website: kenwebb69.comBook: "Trapped in Deception" available on Amazon US and UK in ebook, softcover, hardcover, and audiobook (self-narrated by Ken)Free audiobook codes available for listeners willing to leave a review. Visit kenwebb69.com for details.YouTube:  "Ken Webb Trapped in Deception" for video content and interviewsFacebook: search "Ken Webb" author pageFocal Point Coaching of Oak ParkOffer: First session FREE | Code: Mention "HealthyMind" in your emailWake up ltdSelf Mental Healthcare/Stress Relief Practices - Buddha way, backed by science | Code: healthymindDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showWant to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? 👉  DM me on PodMatch 💬 Want to come on the show? Be a Guest 🌐 Explore the full network  | 📨 Newsletter | 👥 LinkedIn CommunityThis isn't self-help. It's self-honesty.💼 Sponsor Our Show | 🎬 Check Our Services📌 Disclaimer This episode is for educational and informational purposes only. Guest views are personal and do not represent the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify or endorse guest statements. Nothing here is medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional. Engage critically. Third-party content referenced under fair use. Guests are responsible for their own statements. Concerns? Contact us | Full disclaimer.By listening, you accept this disclaimer in full.