Ep.29 Moving Beyond Casual Sex and External Validation in Dating with Louis Brantmeyer

Send us Fan MailIn today's dating......you’re supposed to go out, swipe for a partner, chase validation—because that’s the cultural script and it’s easier than sitting with your own hunger or loneliness? And yet, how many of us get stuck in that loop? We’re cycling through the same heartbreaks, the same bargains with ourselves, convinced pain is the price of finding connection—but is it?This episode is a raw, punch-in-the-gut exploration of those jagged places where our deepest longing collides with years of programming, religious guilt, and, honestly, a shit-ton of confusion about what love and intimacy are really supposed to look like.If you’ve ever been hammered by the ache of wanting someone to choose you—by the pain of feeling like wholeness is just one more failed relationship away—this conversation doesn’t offer you platitudes. It invites you to dig around in your own mess, to ask whether pain always has to be your teacher, or if maybe there’s another way, one that burns down the illusions we inherited. Sari CowsertClaim Your FREE Meditation!Instagramwww.thegrowthgoddess.netThe Growth Goddess, who intimately understands the constraints of control and fear, and through her own personal transformation, she has garnered the wisdom to lead others on their transformative journey. As a Hypnotherapist, Master Imagery Facilitator, and Essence Curator, Sari's mission is to illuminate the path for every person she encounters, creating a sacred space for you to uniquely radiate in your own true authenticity.Sari is your host of the Uncharted Way podcast—a no-nonsense space dedicated to revealing the stories of individuals who courageously defy societal norms to forge their own unique paths. Sari hopes to inspire her audience to live unapologetically and chart their own provocative journeys.Louis Brantmeyer helps successful professional men to create the relationships and sex of their dreams as a dating/relating/mating coach through Make Love Easy, and he helps heart-centered coaches, healers, teachers, and holistic practitioners to scale their businesses to reach or add six figures in yearly income with fun, flow, and organic marketing online with Speak Powerfully Now. Louis went from socially-awkward, anxious, introverted science fiction-loving nerd (HUGE fan of Star Trek!) and spent more than a decade and many thousands of dollars on personal development to transform into a social virtuoso (enjoying abundance and adventures in dating and relating), serial entrepreneur, international public speaker, and author. Louis's first book on thriving in relationships - The Treasure Of Souls Touching: A Hurricane, A Pandemic, And A Stolen Car - is also available for digital download at his website below. Louis is best found on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/louis.brantmeyer.9 or you can also enjoy his website: https://louisbrantmeyer.com/ or his Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louismabrantmeyer/5 minute nervous system reset ad for midroll