My Best Friend Stole My Entire Wedding… What Do I Do?

Ring, ring! It’s 1-800-BRIDESMAID. Author and pro bridesmaid Jen Glantz brings her hit newsletter to life in this judgment-free zone for all your real wedding, love, and friendship drama questions—plus expert advice to help sort it all out. In this episode, Jen is joined by Mindie Kaplan—tech leader, host of the Mailroom podcast, and founder of the Million Mammograms initiative. Mindie has interviewed men around the world about dating, relationships, and red flags… and today she’s bringing that same sharp, hilarious, truth-telling energy to the Bridesmaid Hotline. Jen and Mindie dive into everything from ghosting and “if he wanted to, he would” to rejection, chemistry, approaching strangers in the wild, and how to know when someone actually shows up for you. Then they unpack this week’s caller dilemma: What do you do when your best friend copies your entire wedding—venue, colors, flowers, vendors, dress—and brushes it off like it’s no big deal? Episode Highlights: • What men really mean vs. how women interpret it • Why the outcome always tells the truth (even when the signs don’t) • How to approach new people without fear (and survive rejection with confidence) • Why weddings bring out hidden tensions in friendships • How to decide whether to confront, let go, or walk away If you’ve ever dealt with a copycat friend, felt confused by someone’s mixed signals, or needed a reminder to trust what people do—not what they say—this episode is a must-listen.