My Britney Moment: Cutting off my hair and Identity Metamorphosis

In this episode of On Becoming, Jess explores the quiet power of changing how we see ourselves, beginning with a long-awaited decision to cut her hair. What starts as a physical transformation unfolds into something deeper, shaped by heartbreak, reinvention, and the subtle ways identity is tied to appearance.Drawing on personal reflections, cultural influences, and moments of vulnerability, she unpacks the emotional weight we place on beauty, femininity, and belonging. From navigating loss of confidence to rebuilding it from within, this episode traces the in-between space where who you were and who you’re becoming briefly collide.A thoughtful exploration of letting go, soft rebellion, and the unexpected clarity that can come from stepping outside of your own reflection.Please leave a review and rate the show on the Spotify or Apple Podcast app if you enjoyed this episode.Connect on ⁠Instagram⁠Cover art photography by ⁠Nergal Youkhana⁠Directed and produced by Jess