My Cancer Was A Blessing In Disguise (Part 3) – Paul D. Lowe & Sam Hales

In this episode Paul is joined by Sam Hales, for the third in a four part episode, to discuss a four letter word that came up at the end of the last episode: “Love”. KEY TAKEAWAYS I had no love, I didn’t know what love was, I wasn’t willing to accept love, I had zero self-worth, I didn’t realise the importance of love. But, with cancer being the blessing in disguise that it was, I then realised and learned that it’s actually all about love. Everything starts with love and, if you don’t have it, something will always present itself to make you realise that you actually need it, you need to go and look for it and you need to practice self-love to start with. When cancer presents itself there’s an element of the family coming together to support and stand strong together and love is all around. Before cancer, it was let’s go party, let’s work, let’s just live absent mindedly and not address the real issues which is having fun together and without substances because they mask what really needs to be addressed. Self-love is learned, but if we don’t have that love we are robots, a shell we are dysfunctional without it. Then we go through these big traumatic events in our lives, discover that love is all it’s about and then things just gradually start falling into place. We start feeling the warmth and we start feeling happy within ourselves and when we start feeling that happiness and our vibration is raised a little bit and things start to go well – we get good jobs, or welcome people into our lives who match that vibration and are good people. It all starts with a little even where love is shown. I was a very angry person at a young age, I hated the world and the world around me, I would drink to mask it and abuse substances, going with people to find what I thought was love at the time but wasn’t. The “walking wounded” are the people that are walking around not knowing that they need love, not understanding that to improve the quality of their life they have to learn to love themselves, show love and accept love as well. BEST MOMENTS ‘With the absence of love we are not contributing to the world.’ ‘It’s about letting go of business, money and everything else and it's about being together and feeling that loving energy of everybody around you and their vibrations. That’s where the real healing starts.’ ‘I have to go through these things to learn the big lessons later on.’ ‘Why is every single one of us going through these terrible traumas to find love? It should really start with love from birth.’ VALUABLE RESOURCES Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272 Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272 Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679 Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679 Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon) World Game-Changers Group ABOUT THE GUEST Sam Hales’ aim is to use treatments for healing, body maintenance, relaxation, to boost your immune system and make you feel really good! Her fitness and therapy techniques are for soothing, relaxing, rebuilding, regenerating and are designed and thoroughly practised so that you receive only the very best my services she has to offer.   Website: https://www.samhalesfitness.co.uk/  Facebook: @SamHalesFitness Instagram: @samhalesfitness ABOUT THE HOST Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life. From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence. Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational: Contributing Significantly To World Peace… He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.   This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring.  He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide. Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising. CONTACT METHODS Tel: +44 (0) 7958 042 155 E-mail: [email protected] Web: https://www.Paul-Lowe.com Web: https://www.worldgamechangers.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/