MY EIGHTY YEAR OLD GRANDAUNT

In this Podcast, I have a lengthy conversation with My Grand Aunt. I do this Podcast because we’re all in search of the truth. - We talk about life and her life. - The truth - Hearing the other party – (Audi Alteram Partem) before Judging - The inner voice - How she grew up - The opportunities she missed out on - Her regrets - Marriage - Getting away with lies - Getting rid of negative thoughts - The outcome of replacing politics with religion in schools - How she raised her children - Millennials going back to the rudiments - How to live a healthy life (and) - What God means to her Chapters: [00:00] Intro [00:59] Why I do this Podcast [02:10] Self Introduction [02:29] Odiuko Translation [02:43] Where are you from? [03:19] What opportunities did you miss out on? [03:58] What impact would you have had in becoming a Justice of the supreme court? [04:17] How did your husband's passing make you not to continue your pursuit of being a Justice of the Supreme Court? [04:46] Her husband's Specialty and what she did after his passing. [05:08] How did you meet your husband? [06:40] Was there malpractice in your time and what did the sisters teach? [07:13] Were you a bad girl in Secondary School? [07:49] Her Policy and what the sisters thought about her [09:01] Grandaunt sings a Latin Hymn [09:43] Sisters prepared us to be Solid future Mothers [10:07] When she met my Grandma 'Mary' - Director of Education [10:44] Were you good at Maths? [11:11] Were your parents strict? [12:15] Do you feel past arranged marriages are better than modern marriages where we pick our partners ourselves? [12:58] What's your view on divorce/incompatibility? [13:43] Your husband is your baby. Handle him with care. [14:26] Reformation/Solution for modern marriages. [14:57] How many siblings do you have? [15:26] Were your siblings competitive? [15:52] Her parents discipline method [16:22] Why did you choose Law? [17:09] I was the first woman to wear trousers in a Drama play. [17:58] The Drama Play solidified my dream of becoming a Lawyer [18:35] 'Men couldn't allow me' [18:40] How did you manage to focus with the attention from men? [20:02] How long did your husband train for Laparoscopy? [20:28] What she studied in Birmingham. [21:07] My husband did not want our children to become British Citizens. [21:33] Did you get away with Lies when you were younger? [22:30] What was your Dad's Occupation? [23:03] What was your Mum's Occupation? [24:05] We go to Presidential Hotel at 2AM. There was security. [24:44] In 1979, they were cutting hands at Onitsha. [25:03] What caused the collapse of Peace? [25:18] The Government taking over the schools after the war took away morality. [26:50] The Discipline and Grounding we received. [27:09] What opportunities did you miss out on? [27:50] I couldn't cope with my husband's philanthropic works. [28:05] My Husband bought ammunitions for the Cathedral Church [28:48] 'We invested in what we believed' - The Church. [29:08] My Children are my Pension and Gratuity [29:28] 'My Husband is a Handsome, Clean Boy'. [30:12] How did you learn to drive? [30:51] What hurt you most in your life? [31:05] What killed your Mum? [32:00] The Europeans couldn't pronounce my Husband's name. [33:20] What's the best thing about having Children? [34:25] "You're not sick Meg, you don't have the money to meet up". [34:51] Do you feel people should have money before having Children? [35:19] Have you been to Heaven? [35:28] What does Heaven look like? [36:50] 'Gracey, why mystify me?' [37:53] The ear of the heart [38:58] alde alterem partem [39:47] 'People bank on what they don't know' [40:39] Talent is higher than Virtue. [40:58] Is it always true that you receive when you give? [42:08] Car is a fluid property [42:43] 'Sylvester who mints money is no longer there' [43:03] What are your biggest regrets? [44:03] How to go about Judgment [45:50] Do you feel it's always good t