"My Friend Said My Girlfriend is His Dream Lay...Do I Tell Her?"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who wants to know what he should text a girl until he sees her again.- A guy texting with a girl for HOURS every day, and she's still updating her dating apps.- A guy whose "friend" told him he wants to hook up with his girlfriend more than any other woman in the world.- A guy that found much more success when he made his dating profile have player vibes.- A guy who claims that girls who offer to split the bill are indicating that they never want to meet again.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Do not over-text between the first and second date. If the second date is already loosely planned, there is no need to keep texting just to “stand out.” Too much texting can hurt your chances more than it helps, so save the conversation for when you see her again.Confirm the date the day before so she knows it is still happening. Many women will assume a date is off if they do not hear from you before it happens. A simple confirmation text with the time and place is enough to protect your own time and keep the plan alive.Taking notes after dates helps you remember important details. If you are dating multiple women or have a bad memory, write down what you talked about, what she likes, and any future date ideas. This keeps you from mixing women up and helps you stay sharper when you meet again.If she keeps updating her dating profile, she is still open to other men. Updating photos, changing a bio, or adding selfies after you have been talking for a month means she is still active on the app. That does not mean she is doing something wrong, but it can still be a major turnoff.Texting fifty times a day before meeting creates too much investment. Long daily texting, good morning messages, goodnight texts, calls, games, and playlists can make the situation feel more serious than it is. Until she is actually dating you consistently in person, do not treat her like a girlfriend.If your friend says he wants to sleep with your girlfriend, stop hanging out with him. A real friend does not name your girlfriend when asked who he would sleep with. That is disrespectful, possibly malicious, and enough reason to cut him out of your life.Tell your girlfriend if one of your friends openly wants her. If you suddenly stop hanging out with that friend group, she is going to know something happened. Tell her the truth, watch her reaction, and do not hide a serious boundary issue from a three-year relationship.A casual dating profile can get better results than one that looks too serious. If a more relaxed profile brings in more matches, keep using it. Getting matches and dates is the first step, and a casual profile can still lead to a long-term relationship if it gets women to meet you.Dating app pictures matter more than what you say you are looking for. Many women may not study your bio or relationship-intention label before swiping. More natural, casual photos can sometimes work better than overly polished pictures that feel too professional or forced.A woman paying or splitting the bill does not automatically mean she is uninterested. Some women pay because they do not want to feel like they owe anything, while others simply prefer fairness. Do not overread the bill situation; keep dates affordable, try to split, and judge interest by the bigger pattern.