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EPISODE · Jun 16, 2026 · 10 MIN

My Teen has Big Goals But is Afraid to Start: Life Hack to Getting Started || Ep. 163

from The Second of Strength Podcast · host Tanner clark

Is your teenager sitting on a big goal — and doing nothing about it? This episode is for every parent who has watched their teen dream big but struggle to take the first step, and for every teenager who knows what they want but can’t seem to start.Tanner opens with an honest question: What is the cost of never trying? Not just for you — but for every person who needed you to show up and you didn’t. He shares the story of how he almost didn’t start speaking to teenagers in schools — convinced his story wasn’t good enough, that he didn’t know how, that he wasn’t the right person. Since starting, he has spoken to over 100,000 teens across the U.S. and Canada. Lives changed because he took one step forward.Then he shares a conversation from this week — a motivated teenager who wants to build four video games by the end of the summer but hasn’t started. Sound familiar? The goal wasn’t the problem. The size of it was. Tanner walks through exactly how he helped this teen break the overwhelming into the doable: not four games, not even one game — just the first step toward one game.In this episode you’ll learn:•       Why teenagers (and adults) procrastinate on big goals — and it’s not laziness•       How to break an overwhelming goal into a first step your teen can actually take today•       The difference between “I might start” and “I will start” — and why it changes everything•       How one second of strength is all it takes to beginIf your teenager is stuck, overwhelmed, or afraid to fail, this episode will give you both a framework and the courage to move forward. Share it with them. Listen together. Then ask: what’s the first step?Don't forget to do the 3 S'sSTAR - Give the show 5 StarsSHARE - Share this with ONE teenager or personSUBSCRIBE - Hit follow so you never miss an episode

Is your teenager sitting on a big goal — and doing nothing about it? This episode is for every parent who has watched their teen dream big but struggle to take the first step, and for every teenager who knows what they want but can’t seem to start.Tanner opens with an honest question: What is the cost of never trying? Not just for you — but for every person who needed you to show up and you didn’t. He shares the story of how he almost didn’t start speaking to teenagers in schools — convinced his story wasn’t good enough, that he didn’t know how, that he wasn’t the right person. Since starting, he has spoken to over 100,000 teens across the U.S. and Canada. Lives changed because he took one step forward.Then he shares a conversation from this week — a motivated teenager who wants to build four video games by the end of the summer but hasn’t started. Sound familiar? The goal wasn’t the problem. The size of it was. Tanner walks through exactly how he helped this teen break the overwhelming into the doable: not four games, not even one game — just the first step toward one game.In this episode you’ll learn:•       Why teenagers (and adults) procrastinate on big goals — and it’s not laziness•       How to break an overwhelming goal into a first step your teen can actually take today•       The difference between “I might start” and “I will start” — and why it changes everything•       How one second of strength is all it takes to beginIf your teenager is stuck, overwhelmed, or afraid to fail, this episode will give you both a framework and the courage to move forward. Share it with them. Listen together. Then ask: what’s the first step?Don't forget to do the 3 S'sSTAR - Give the show 5 StarsSHARE - Share this with ONE teenager or personSUBSCRIBE - Hit follow so you never miss an episode

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