Name Your Monster Before It Names You

Today I'm going somewhere real and raw, because I owe you that. Every July 10th takes me back to losing a former Baylor teammate to suicide, and that loss is a big reason I do what I do. In this episode I talk about the mental monsters we all carry, why naming them matters, and why the most courageous thing a high performer can do is say 'I need help' out loud. I also want you to hear this: if you are in a dark place right now, you are not alone, and this episode is for you. Key Takeaways Everyone carries mental monsters. The names differ, depression, anger, hopelessness, but the experience of fighting them is deeply human and nothing to hide from. Naming your monster separates it from your identity. When you can call it something, you stop fighting yourself and start recognizing the voice as a liar. Keeping your struggle to yourself is not strength. It is the easiest and most dangerous choice. Real courage is saying 'I need help' and meaning it. Darkness grows in silence. The more areas of your life you keep hidden, the more that darkness spreads. Talking about it is not weakness, it is light. You may be one conversation away from saving someone's life. A simple check-in text can be the only thing standing between someone and a decision they cannot take back. Action Steps If you are struggling today, reach out to someone you trust and say exactly this: 'I need help.' That sentence alone can start changing everything. Name the mental monster you are currently fighting. Write it down. Separating it from yourself is the first step to facing it without feeling like you are fighting your own reflection. This week, send a check-in message to at least one person in your life. No agenda, no long conversation required. Just let them know they are on your mind and you care. Notable Quote It's not strong to keep it to yourself. That's easy. And that leads to a very, very dark road.