Naughty Monkey - The Five Pillars of Intimacy

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Monkey, a self-described “nerdy computer scientist turned tantric guide,” who shares his incredible journey of transformation. Growing up in India, Monkey repressed his sexuality for decades—struggling with shame, a stutter, and a failed arranged marriage—before discovering healing through psychedelics, tantra, and radical self-acceptance.We dive deep into his five pillars of intimacy: self-love, knowing yourself, communication, sensuality, and play. Monkey reveals how these principles helped him release people-pleasing, honor his boundaries, and turn what many would see as weaknesses—like his stutter—into authentic strengths.This episode explores:How taking 100% responsibility for your reality creates freedom in relationships.Why self-love and self-knowledge are the foundation of intimacy.How tantra and embodiment practices can heal sexual shame.Practical tips for setting boundaries without guilt.Why playfulness and sensuality are essential to keeping attraction alive.Whether you’re navigating dating, healing from heartbreak, or deepening intimacy with a partner, this conversation offers practical tools and inspiring insights to transform your love life.You can find Naughty Monkeys workshops and book at https://artofintimacy.org/ 👉 Ready to find real connection? Sign up now to beta test Amoraea — the dating app built on compatibility, intimacy, and video-first interactions — at www.amoraea.com