Navigating Generational Wealth: How to Give Without Enabling with Ashley Quamme (Ep. 18)

Achieving financial stability brings a new set of challenges, especially when it comes to supporting adult children. How do you help without creating dependency, and when does generosity cross the line into enabling? In this episode of Living Beyond the Numbers, Jude Boudreaux and Caleb Arringdale are joined by Ashley Quamme, LMFT, FBS®, CFT, Owner and Founder of Beyond The Plan®, for a thoughtful conversation about the emotional and practical sides of intergenerational wealth. Ashley shares strategies for starting money conversations with adult children, the difference between fairness and equality in gifting, and how to build meaningful family traditions that transcend financial resources. They discuss: Why validation matters when parents feel conflicted about giving to adult children How to start money conversations before jumping into large gifts or financial support The difference between equal and equitable giving when children have different needs When to begin teaching kids about money, investing, and financial responsibility at age-appropriate levels Creating family traditions and legacy through experiences, culture, and connection beyond expensive trips And more! Connect with Jude Boudreaux CFP®:  The Planning Center LinkedIn: Jude Boudreaux [email protected] Phone: (504) 717-4862 Connect with Caleb Arringdale: LinkedIn: Caleb Arringdale [email protected]  Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Ashley Quamme: LinkedIn: Ashley Quamme Website: Beyond the Plan® YouTube: Beyond the Plan® About our Guest:  Ashley Quamme is recognized as a leading voice in financial psychology, with nearly 15 years of experience at the intersection of human behavior and money. Trained as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Financial Behavior Specialist®, her work has been shaped by a deep understanding of how emotions, relationships, and biases influence financial decision-making. Her expertise has been sought by advisory firms, financial institutions, and professional organizations across North America, where she has guided advisors and leaders in embedding behavioral insights into their systems, conversations, and client strategies. Known for bridging the gap between technical advice and human behavior, Ashley’s approach has been instrumental in transforming client experiences, advisor confidence, and firm-wide impact. Her work has been featured on leading podcasts, industry conferences, and corporate trainings, where she is consistently recognized for making complex behavioral science both practical and actionable.