Need Your Child to Reciprocate Love? Longing vs. Limerence for Alienated Parents

Understanding Limerence in the Context of Parental AlienationIn episode 149 of The Beyond The High Road Podcast, host Shelby Milford delves into the concept of limerence within the context of parental alienation. Shelby explains limerence, describing it as an uncontrollable obsession often influenced by limited or non-reciprocal contact with an object of affection, in this case, one's child. Shelby outlines symptoms, causes, and the interplay of attachment styles, emphasizing the impact of ongoing trauma and loss experienced by alienated parents. She also discusses the parallels between limerence and addiction, noting that addressing underlying emotions and traumas is key to overcoming it. Listeners are encouraged to converse about their personal experiences and consider seeking coaching or counseling as needed.00:00 Introduction and Announcements02:47 Understanding Limerence in the Context of Alienation05:29 Symptoms and Signs of Limerence16:29 Attachment Styles and Limerence21:20 The Impact of Limerence on Perception and Reality24:56 Addressing Limerence and Moving Forward26:13 Understanding Limerence and Its Effects on the Brain27:11 Prerequisites and Susceptibility to Limerence27:51 ADHD and Limerence: The Connection28:36 Attachment Styles and Limerence29:35 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Limerence31:06 Recognizing and Addressing Limerence33:04 The Impact of Limerence on Relationships34:35 Breaking Free from Limerence44:47 The Role of Grief in Overcoming Limerence48:57 Final Thoughts and Seeking Help#PARENTALALIENATIONRECOVERY #PODCASTFORALIENATEDPARENTS #ALIENATEDMOM #ALIENATEDFATHER #LIMERENCE #LONGING