Neurodivergent Psychologist: You're Performing, Not Living (Watch This to Avoid Burnout!) episode artwork

EPISODE · Apr 8, 2026 · 36 MIN

Neurodivergent Psychologist: You're Performing, Not Living (Watch This to Avoid Burnout!)

from OpenHaus · host OpenHaus By WriteHaus Asia

You can be competent, high-achieving and reliable but still struggle. Dr Ong Mian-Li, Clinical Psychologist Specialising in ADHD and Autism in Adulthood, explains why adults may feel burnt-out despite appearing "successful". He shares both his professional insights and personal journey as a neurodivergent individual navigating burnout, masking, and societal expectations.In this episode, we explore:🟦 Why high-achieving individuals still feel “behind” in life🟦 Te difference between external success and internal fulfilment🟦 What neurodivergence actually means and why many adults go undiagnosed for years🟦 The hidden cost of masking and people-pleasing🟦 High-pressured culture and self-criticism in Asian society🟦 Recognising burnout vs lack of discipline🟦 How to start choosing yourself withoutfeeling guiltyThis episode unpacks the emotional weight behind constantly striving and offers a new perspective on self-worth, identity, and what it truly means to live a fulfilling life.

You can be competent, high-achieving and reliable but still struggle. Dr Ong Mian-Li, Clinical Psychologist Specialising in ADHD and Autism in Adulthood, explains why adults may feel burnt-out despite appearing "successful". He shares both his professional insights and personal journey as a neurodivergent individual navigating burnout, masking, and societal expectations.In this episode, we explore:🟦 Why high-achieving individuals still feel “behind” in life🟦 Te difference between external success and internal fulfilment🟦 What neurodivergence actually means and why many adults go undiagnosed for years🟦 The hidden cost of masking and people-pleasing🟦 High-pressured culture and self-criticism in Asian society🟦 Recognising burnout vs lack of discipline🟦 How to start choosing yourself withoutfeeling guiltyThis episode unpacks the emotional weight behind constantly striving and offers a new perspective on self-worth, identity, and what it truly means to live a fulfilling life.

NOW PLAYING

Neurodivergent Psychologist: You're Performing, Not Living (Watch This to Avoid Burnout!)

0:00 36:17

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

No similar episodes found.

No similar podcasts found.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of OpenHaus?

This episode is 36 minutes long.

When was this OpenHaus episode published?

This episode was published on April 8, 2026.

What is this episode about?

You can be competent, high-achieving and reliable but still struggle. Dr Ong Mian-Li, Clinical Psychologist Specialising in ADHD and Autism in Adulthood, explains why adults may feel burnt-out despite appearing "successful". He shares both his...

Can I download this OpenHaus episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!