NEW - Your Relationship Expectations Aren't Yours. Here's Where They Came From

Social media does not show relationship conflicts, insecurity, ordinary bodies, or real intimacy. It shows curated vacations, idealized bodies, and romantic gestures. Dr. Laurie Betito calls it the comparison trap: measuring your actual relationship against someone else's highly edited reality, then wondering why yours falls short. The Highlight Reel Affecting Your Expectations Social media shapes beliefs about relationships, attractiveness, masculinity, and femininity without announcing itself. Dr. Betito asks the question most people never think to ask: are you choosing who you want to be, or unconsciously following a script set by everything you consume? What Healthy Actually Looks Like The more useful question is not what a real man or real woman should be. It is what qualities allow a person to thrive: integrity, emotional intelligence, accountability, the ability to ask for help, and the ability to connect. Dr. Betito says in thirty-five years of practice, the tide is shifting. More men are asking for help than ever before. Topics: relationship expectations, social media comparison, masculinity femininity, gender identity, healthy relationships GUEST: Laurie Betito | drlaurie.com Originally aired on 2026-06-05