你的20+岁真的是你的最好时光吗？

Are your 20's really the best yearsof your life?CraigWeiler, Married almost 30 yearsIn general, no. If anything, your20’s are usually some of the worst years of your life. Most people who havelived long enough will tell you that their best years started in their 50’s. Iwould agree with that personally.In your 20’s, everything is aheadof you, but you have no idea how to get from point A to point B. The amount youhave to learn to be happy in your life is staggering, particularly in emotionalareas where the baggage from your childhood is still enormous and following youaround like 100 lb. anchor, affecting everything you do.Other people have accomplished alot more than you in the same amount of time and you can’t seem to get out ofyour dead end job despite your education.Your closest relationship isn’tall that great and you can’t seem to make it better. In fact, you see yourselfmaking it worse. No one comes into marriage fully prepared deal with all thatchallenges that lie ahead. Old wound, expectations, fantasies, secrets,insecurities, power struggles and trust issues all have to be worked out.In your 20’s, you suck at lifeand as a result you’re just hopping from one personal crisis to the next. Everythingis a drama.This is life in your 20’s:It’s easy to slip and easy tofall. Everything is a balancing act and the path is a precarious one. You oftendon’t know if you’re on the right path. Uncertainty is everywhere.Yet as you get older and moreexperienced at life, you get better and better at different areas and thingsstart to improve. You’ve failed enough in some areas to have learned valuablelessons and you get more respect from the world because you’ve earned it.But not in your 20’s. They suck.