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你跟人冷战好几年，其实是把开关交给了对方｜孔子·论语
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你跟爱人冷战，等他先开口；跟同事别扭，凭什么我低头；跟父母有结，是他们不肯懂我。你都对，可你也卡在这儿好几年了。求诸人，就是把你的开关装在别人手里——他不动，你就只能等，等到最后难受的还是你。孔子说君子求诸己：不是认错，是把开关拿回自己手里。你先动一下，这盘死棋就活了。适合睡前听。公众号：雷音-认知考古标签：孔子，论语，认知觉醒，于雷，夜读，认知考古，睡前，边界感，关系内耗，主动权
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