No trauma on the first date — FT. Lindsey Metselaar

This week Emma heads straight for the jugular in this NYC-core episode of Too Much, sitting down with We Met at Acme host Lindsey Metselaar to dissect modern dating in New York — think dating app do’s & don’ts, nightclub bathroom lines, and why “the easygoing girl” is a myth. From first-date rules, to ghosting, love bombing, and the catch 22 that is the dating app, they get real about what women actually want, what men keep getting wrong, and how boundaries beat bare-minimum “green flags” every time.Then Emma wraps up the episode with a rapid-fire “Too Much / Not Enough” for Lindsey that will make every finance bro delete his Strava account. If you’ve ever met at Acme, matched in Manhattan, or tried to date with an edge in this city, this one’s for you.Find We Met at Acme on InstagramFind Lindsey on InstagramEPISODE SPONSORS:Get 15% off your Schedule35 orders with code TOOMUCH at Schedule35.coGet 20% off your first month of Seed’s DS-01® Daily Synbiotic at seed.com/TOOMUCH20 with code TOOMUCH20Go to HelloFresh.com/TOOMUCH10FM now to Get 10 Free Meals + a Free Item for Life!For collaborations and opportunities, email: [email protected]⁠Shop the merch⁠⁠!!⁠Join the muchness on Patreon⁠Follow Too Much:⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠Follow Emma:⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠Want to submit a story or ask Emma for advice? Fill out the form below.https://forms.gle/ZQS261jcUxDFYVoD9See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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