Nobody Told You You'd Have to Run a Business Too!

A wide-ranging Q&A episode covering the realities of building a coaching business from the practical (online technique checks, warming a waitlist, home vs commercial kit) to the deeply personal (the emotional grind of going self-employed, tying self-worth to income, and what it actually takes to succeed in a mentorship).Time Stamps00:02Intro & banterAnt takes over intro duties. Nik's book-corner background, Skye's eternal signal issues, and the inevitable chaos before the first question.01:38Checking online client techniqueAll three agree: video is non-negotiable. Skye's process — record, cue, re-record. Ant makes the case for coaches leading on this rather than leaving it to client preference. Apps mentioned: Coach's Eye, Onform.04:19Warming a waitlist between launchesNik's framework: communicate regularly via email, WhatsApp or Facebook group; share high-value content; run a short challenge; use personal check-ins on a diary schedule. Volume + personal touch.05:56Home vs commercial equipmentQuick answer: it's about expected usage volume, not just warranty. Kit built for home use isn't designed for gym-level wear. Insurance implications worth considering.07:01Qualities of coaches who succeed in mentorshipSkye: resilience — the ability to try things, not get the return you expected, and try again rather than internalising it as personal failure. Nik: a genuine desire to run a business, not just coach — willingness to give something up (time, energy, comfort). Ant: the mindset shift from coach to business owner. Operational accountability, strategic thinking, treating your working week like a business.12:48Going self-employed — the real transitionAnt: chopped 50% of revenue overnight with a young family. Hardest part was managing expectations while rebuilding. Skye: the graft is real but so is the excitement — worst-case scenario thinking as a coping tool. Both agree: the more operationally tight you get early, the faster it gets easier.19:24Is Instagram becoming redundant for selling?Nik: Instagram is a window, not a sales floor. Long-form content (YouTube, email) and personality are the real trust-builders now. People know when they're being sold to — the solution is to be genuinely visible and relatable, not louder. Instagram for awareness; everything else for depth.21:45Hardest part of the jobSkye: managing yourself — the absence of a manager above you who tells you where to focus. Ant: the sheer cognitive load of holding the detail of every coach's business, personality and strategy simultaneously. Going from one person's completely different world to the next, hour after hour.25:46Podcast vs YouTube for long-form contentNik: podcast first — lower barrier, less friction, easier to get personality across. YouTube still worth it long-term but requires more investment in thumbnails, titles and editing to make it worthwhile.27:01If you had to replace your laugh with an animal noise...Nik goes chimpanzee. Skye lands on pig (owns the snort). Ant deliberates between horse and cow. Skye's verdict: if we can't tell if you're laughing or in pain, it doesn't count.29:25Relocating gyms — growing online coachingAnt: don't just rely on Instagram and email. Use the gym itself — workshops, events, local Facebook community groups. If footfall drops, your digital marketing has to diversify. The answer is more mediums, not more of the same one.31:44Limiting beliefs & tying self-worth to incomeNik: don't try to remove the emotion — balance it with facts, actions and evidence that you're doing the right things. Skye: how you feel in the business matters as much as the numbers. Ant: patience with the process if the process is being followed — but if four weeks of consistent effort isn't moving the needle, something has to change.