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EPISODE · Dec 17, 2025 · 1H

Not a Man. Not a Woman. Beyond the Binary with Joy Matthews

from Cocoon After Dark · host Quincy Tessaverne

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of 'Cocoon,' we sit down with Joy Matthews, a black queer health educator and volunteer coordinator at Together for Mental Wellbeing in the UK. Joy shares their journey of navigating complex relationships with their family, overcoming trauma, and redefining their mental health. They discuss the importance of community care, empathy, and a holistic approach to mental wellbeing. Joy reflects on their identity, experiences of dysmorphia, and the importance of staying true to oneself amidst societal pressures. Join us for an enlightening conversation about resilience, self-discovery, and the transformative power of care.00:00 Introduction to Joy Matthews01:34 Joy's Relationship with Parents02:12 Overcoming Childhood Trauma03:37 Navigating Mental Health and Identity05:29 Reconnecting with Family11:12 Stereotypes and Self-Discovery14:08 Gender Identity and Body Image24:07 Challenges in the Mental Health System26:41 Daily Work and Mental Health Coaching33:43 Facing Fears and Social Conventions34:17 Understanding and Empathy in Trans Experiences34:54 Personal Reflections and Advice to Younger Self37:17 Family Acceptance and Personal Identity39:31 Spirituality and Mental Health Journey42:44 Embracing Opportunities and Personal Growth54:07 Navigating Relationships and Social Perceptions59:29 Closing Thoughts and Final ReflectionsSupport the showhttps://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of 'Cocoon,' we sit down with Joy Matthews, a black queer health educator and volunteer coordinator at Together for Mental Wellbeing in the UK. Joy shares their journey of navigating complex relationships with their family, overcoming trauma, and redefining their mental health. They discuss the importance of community care, empathy, and a holistic approach to mental wellbeing. Joy reflects on their identity, experiences of dysmorphia, and the importance of sta...

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