EPISODE · Jun 2, 2026 · 35 MIN
Not having as much sex as you want?
from Permission To Desire: Relationships, Sex, Love, and Liberation · host Brian G. Murphy
Are you in a long-term relationship and finding yourself longing for more intimacy? You're not alone! In this episode, I dive into the common struggles many couples face when it comes to their sex lives.I share experiences from working with couples in my relationship coaching practice, shedding light on the challenges they've encountered and how to navigate through them. Whether you're the partner craving more connection or feeling uncertain about your desires, I've got practical advice for both of you.This episode is for you if you've ever said or thought:"I want sex more often than my partner does""My partner wants to have sex more than I do and I feel bad / weird / anxious / annoyed about it""We aren't having sex like we used to""I thought 'lesbian bed death' didn't happen to gay men?!""All the other gay couples I know are having way more sex than we are" (spoiler alert: they aren't!)"Our sex life is great... but I'd still like more or something different"Enrollment for Relationshift is sold out and now closed. Want early access when enrollment opens again later this summer? Add your name to the waitlist at thisisbgm.com/groupIf you are reading this, I have 2 private coaching spots opening up later in June 2026. Learn more about how coaching can support you in building a fuller, more honest, more alive erotic life and relationship and apply for a spot at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)
What this episode covers
Are you in a long-term relationship and finding yourself longing for more intimacy? You're not alone! In this episode, I dive into the common struggles many couples face when it comes to their sex lives.I share experiences from working with couples in my relationship coaching practice, shedding light on the challenges they've encountered and how to navigate through them. Whether you're the partner craving more connection or feeling uncertain about your desires, I've got practical advice for both of you.This episode is for you if you've ever said or thought:"I want sex more often than my partner does""My partner wants to have sex more than I do and I feel bad / weird / anxious / annoyed about it""We aren't having sex like we used to""I thought 'lesbian bed death' didn't happen to gay men?!""All the other gay couples I know are having way more sex than we are" (spoiler alert: they aren't!)"Our sex life is great... but I'd still like more or something different"Enrollment for Relationshift is sold out and now closed. Want early access when enrollment opens again later this summer? Add your name to the waitlist at thisisbgm.com/groupIf you are reading this, I have 2 private coaching spots opening up later in June 2026. Learn more about how coaching can support you in building a fuller, more honest, more alive erotic life and relationship and apply for a spot at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)
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