EPISODE · Sep 24, 2026 · 8 MIN
Not Yours To Fix
from Intentional Guy · host Michael Chestnut
Somebody you love is hurting, and everything in you wants to fix it. Say the right thing. Find the right counselor. Throw out the pills. Search the house one more time. But what if the person you have been trying to fix was never yours to fix? Wanting to help someone you love is not a sin. But somewhere along the way, love turns into control. I know it, because I have done it. Today we talk about the fixer, what it costs the people around him, and the one prayer that puts it down. The challenge this week: pick the one person you have been trying to fix and pray this. God, I am putting them back in Your hands. Show me my part. Then do your part, only your part. Putting somebody back in God's hands this week? Drop the word RELEASE in the comments so I can pray for you. Mentioned in this episode: my conversation with Steve Rotermund, A SILENT KILLER. Married to someone battling addiction? Steve built a place for you: https://partnersofaddicts.com Find a Celebrate Recovery group near you: https://crlocator.com/It is for hurts, hang-ups, and habits, and codependency is one of them. In Pensacola we meet Tuesdays at 6 PM at Momentum Church. The Intentional Guy: The Whole Story, all three on Amazon. Worn out from trying to fix somebody? Start with More Than a Picture. Still fighting your own battle? Are You Ready? is the plan. More Than a Picture: https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Picture-Restored-Free/dp/B0CCCMZHD3 Are You Ready?: https://a.co/d/02cBh6uY Exposed: https://www.amazon.com/Exposed-Secret-Divorce-Journey-Restoration/dp/B09PHJS848 Search The Intentional Guy Podcast wherever you listen. #TheIntentionalGuy #ChristianMen #CelebrateRecovery #MensMinistry #Codependency #AddictionRecovery Ep. 144
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