Nothing Personal

Today I talk about how I keep having people in my life including my family, friends, and finally a church group keep telling me, "It's not personal, but we don't want to work with you." I'm trying to understand what I've done. I've always thought I was a pretty nice guy. I've got a good sense of humor, and I feel like I'm laid back. A large amount of my family won't speak to me. I've reached out, but have had almost no replies. My wife quit our podcast. A church group told me that they didn't want me in their group. I made the lead uncomfortable. This has me second guessing every emotion, thought, and action I do. I always thought I was a good person. Was I wrong?