Ok but how do you actually “let them”?? (a guide)

Hey! This video is all about how to, "practically", let them. The mental moves behinddd let them, if you will!VIDEO TIMELINE ⇢00:00 Lets talk about Letting Them0:52 The first mental movee you need to understand01:24 Understanding 'Must Mode' (the opposite of let them)02:17 Turning 'Shoulds' into Preferences03:33 Reassuring Your Ego05:43 Setting Personal Policies and Self Limits07:26 Cord Cutting bb08:46 Locus of Control Exercise10:36 RecsLINKS ⇢🔗 Book: Forgive For Good by Fred Luskin https://amzn.to/4cMQFps🔗 Book: How to Stubbornly Refuse to Make Yourself Miserable by Albert Ellis https://amzn.to/4jdA68p🔗 Let Them Peom: https://www.instagram.com/cassie.phillips.letthem🔗 Let Them Book: https://amzn.to/4lMithNLOVE THE PODCAST? ⇢The Intention App is where I share more of what I don’t put on the podcast. Inside, you’ll find the tools I use to feel calmer, regulate my emotions, create more lightbulb moments, reset my days, and take tiny steps forward toward my goals.💸 Starts at $7.99/month (with a 3-day free trial) - it’s cheaper to join via the website http://www.theintentionapp.comYou get:☁️ A premium podcast episode every other week☁️ Actionable mini-courses☁️ Guided journaling audios☁️ Meditation tracks☁️ Quick, on-the-go tools for emotional regulation + mind managementFIND GWI ⇢☀️ On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HqznNA2v9McYirvqmUVvO☀️ On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grow-with-intention/id1720890847☀️ On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintentionCONNECT WITH ME ⇢🧚 Instagram ⇢ http://instagram.com/muchelleb🧚 Website ⇢ http://muchelleb.com.au/🧚 The Grow With Intention Podcast ⇢ https://www.youtube.com/@growwithintentionSHOP ⇢☁️ The Calm Productivity Notion Pack ⇢ https://shop.muchelleb.com.au/products/the-calm-productivity-notion-pack☁️ Level up Your Life with The Life Map ⇢ https://shop.muchelleb.com.au/products/the-life-map💫 A QUICK NOTE 💫 Please take with you from this video what resonates and leave what doesn’t. You know you best.