Hey, it's Jamin, your one-minute coach. Counting the cost before you begin something is a really important aspect of setting well-formed outcomes that most people fail to pay attention to. I find that people often underestimate some of the costs involved in their personal development costs, such as increased conflict, facing fears, failure, disappointment. These things are all central consequences of personal growth.
Jesus said, suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Why don't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? If you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you. Perhaps part of the internal resistance you're experiencing to moving forward into goals you'd imagine you'd have already achieved by now is that you've never counted the true cost.
This is not about discouraging you from setting goals, but rather helping you realize exactly what you're signing up for before you press go. You really can have whatever you want as long as you're fully willing and able to pay all the associated costs involved. For more information, go to oneminutecoach.com.au.