On Fire: Keeping Love Alive

When a very expensive home is in danger of catching fire, Chubb, a well known insurance company will often send a private fire prevention team to creare an impenetrable perimeter around their insured homes. Chubb knows it's difficult to stop a fire. So they spend tens of thousands of dollars and employ private teams of firemen to ensure their insured homes worth millions don't burn down. How can we create a (positive) marriage fire? 1. By focusing on the good in your spouse and in yourself, the flames of good deeds and solid character multiply as if gasoline is poured on a raging inferno. And thst inferno warms your heart and brightens your face. 2. Daily we have the privilege of changing our mindsets, attitudes and habits much like putting another log on s bonfire. We can fan the flames of love, happiness, peace, and unity until warm fire burns forever. Tip: record the good your spouse does or things you like about them in a diary/journal/notebook. Or think of what you like about him/her as you fall asleep.