EPISODE · Mar 30, 2025 · 30 MIN
Open Marriage Saved Their 35-Year Relationship | Ep 075
from Gurus & Game Changers: Real Solutions for Life's Biggest Challenges · host Stacey Grant & Mark Lubragge
Send us Fan Mail🗣️ From crisis to radical reinvention: Wayne Scott, acclaimed Portland psychotherapist and author of "The Maps They Gave Us," shares the extraordinary journey of how his 35-year mixed-orientation marriage survived through open non-monogamy.Wayne's powerful story has been featured in the New York Times' Modern Love column, adapted for podcast and tv, and established him as a leading voice in relationship counseling for non-traditional couples. His raw honesty about confronting jealousy, inadequacy, and societal expectations offers insights for anyone navigating the complexities of long-term relationships.KEY TAKEAWAYS:🗣️ "Success in marriage isn't predicated on longevity" - Why relationships evolve🗣️ How confronting personal insecurities can transform partnerships🗣️ Why conventional relationship models don't work for everyone🗣️ The importance of intentional communication during relationship crises🗣️ How to reimagine marriage as "an act of imagination"CHAPTERS:00:00 Introduction & Early Relationship03:42 The Crisis Point in Their Marriage08:03 Their Therapist's Radical Suggestion11:02 Navigating Jealousy and Inadequacy15:55 How Their Children Adapted19:44 Supporting Other Non-Monogamous Couples23:50 Defining Successful Marriage25:23 The Meaning Behind "The Maps They Gave Us"Whether you're in a traditional marriage, exploring alternative relationship structures, or simply interested in human connection, Wayne's story offers profound wisdom on creating partnerships that honor both commitment and personal growth.📲 Connect with Our Hosts:Stacey: https://www.instagram.com/staceymgrant/Mark: https://www.instagram.com/mark_lubragge_onair/⭐️ Watch/Subscribe to Gurus and Game Changers on Youtube: www.youtube.com/@UCsRyuQWlLAYzM4IyJlF2IWQ ⭐️ Listen on any podcast audio platform📲 Connect with Wayne ScottWebsite: https://waynescottlcsw.com/Book: https://www.amazon.com/Maps-They-Gave-Us-Reimagined/dp/1625571542#OpenMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #ModernLove #QueerStories
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Send us Fan Mail 🗣️ From crisis to radical reinvention: Wayne Scott, acclaimed Portland psychotherapist and author of "The Maps They Gave Us," shares the extraordinary journey of how his 35-year mixed-orientation marriage survived through open non-monogamy. Wayne's powerful story has been featured in the New York Times' Modern Love column, adapted for podcast and tv, and established him as a leading voice in relationship counseling for non-traditional couples. His raw honesty about conf...
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