Opposites Attract, Chapter 20, from the audiobook, "Every Marriage Is...Flawed"

Opposites AttractSpeaking of ‘Irreconcilable Differences’, well that means opposites work against each other.  Truth, we choose whether to let those differences become irreconcilable.  We choose whether to change from abusive/destructive to healthy/loving behavior.  We also choose to embrace and actually benefit from certain differences.  Study any successful couple and you will note they can be very different.  Each person brings certain strengths and weaknesses to a relationship.  Often the other side counters the weaknesses with strengths.  When you really think about it, it is a brilliant design.