Outgrowing the Version of You the World Still Sees

What if the version of you people see… isn’t who you are anymore?We’re quick to define people by their lowest moment. A season of their life becomes the whole story—and even when they change, the narrative doesn’t always follow.In this episode, I sit down with Frederick “Freddy” Shegog, who went from homelessness and addiction to becoming a nationally recognized speaker. But this conversation isn’t just about where he’s been—it’s about what it actually takes to become someone new.We talk about survival mode, the reality of addiction, the role of environment, and the tension between personal responsibility and systemic challenges.And maybe most importantly… what it costs to be known for a version of yourself you’ve already outgrown.This one is honest, layered, and stayed with me long after we stopped recording.Hosted by Linsey Dara