Over-functioning, Can you change it?

Keywords over-functioning, relationships, co-parenting, boundaries, emotional intelligence, self-care, empowerment, women, parenting, mental health Summary In this conversation, the hosts discuss the dynamics of over-functioning partners, particularly in the context of relationships and co-parenting. They explore the emotional toll of over-functioning, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care. The discussion also emphasizes the role of women in breaking the cycle of under-functioning partners and empowering the next generation to foster healthier relationships. The conversation concludes with practical strategies for change and healing, encouraging listeners to recognize their worth and seek supportive communities. How to Find Ashley! Her website is www.drashleysouthard.com IG and FB handles are @drashleysouthard Takeaways Over-functioning often leads to burnout and resentment. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. Women are often conditioned to take on more responsibilities in relationships. Co-parenting dynamics can exacerbate over-functioning issues. Recognizing one's own over-functioning is the first step to change. Empowering the next generation involves teaching emotional intelligence. Women are increasingly choosing to be single rather than settle for under-functioning partners. Healthy relationships require reciprocity and mutual support. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Communities of support can help women navigate relationship challenges. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Over-Functioning Partners 05:58 Understanding Boundaries and People-Pleasing 06:33 The Impact of Conditioning on Relationships 06:43 Introduction to Over-Functioning Women 09:40 Understanding Over-Functioning Dynamics 12:50 Co-Parenting and Over-Functioning 15:50 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships 18:44 The Gender Dynamics of Over-Functioning 21:43 Breaking the Cycle of Over-Functioning 24:43 Awareness and Change in Relationships 30:50 The Importance of Balance in Relationships 33:36 Learning to Receive and Ask for Help 36:43 Recognizing Over-Functioning and Under-Functioning Dynamics 38:42 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Children 43:40 Breaking the Cycle for Future Generations 46:46 Empowerment and Community Among Women 49:54 Navigating the Challenges of Modern Parenting 52:50 The Complexities of Co-Parenting 55:47 Understanding Under-Functioning Partners 59:05 The Burden of Expectations in Co-Parenting 01:01:55 The Financial Dynamics of Divorce 01:07:51 Learning and Evolving Through Experience 01:09:42 Introduction to Co-Parenting Dynamics 01:09:46 Navigating Legal Aspects of Co-Parenting