Overcome Your Fears: Take Action Anyway

Every time you try something new it’s going to feel uncomfortable. This episode is about doing it anyway. I share a personal story about fear of being seen, an unexpected encounter with Gary Vaynerchuk, and the mindset shift that changed my perspective: focus on helping one person, and the fear takes care of itself. HOPE: help one person everydayKey InsightsFear lives in the before, not the during. The anticipation/anxiety of doing something hard is almost always worse than the thing itself. Once you take action, you’re in a completely different emotional experience.You don’t have to feel ready to begin. Readiness is a myth we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. You learn the road by walking it.Service dissolves self-consciousness. When I shifted my focus off of my fear to can I help someone - fear lost its grip. Shifting to service is one of the most effective ways to move through fears. And that ties in to the contributing skill from DBT.One person is enough. If making yourself better benefits even one person around you, you mattered. Impact doesn’t require scale. It requires intention.Reflection Prompts* What is the thing I keep almost doing but talking myself out of?* Am I waiting to feel ready - or am I willing to begin anyway?* Who is the one person I could help if I just showed up as my best self?Do it scared. Do it awkward. Do it before you feel ready. That’s where growth lives. Cope well. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe