Overcoming Sexual Frustration | Tammy Hill | #66

On today’s episode of the stronger marriage connection, Dave and Liz with TammyHill, educator, LMFT, ASSECT, and author discuss how to overcome rejection, desire difference,and stale sex. Explore new ways to replenish your partner and build beauty in your sexualconnection.About Tammy Hill:Tammy Hill is passionate about strengthening marriage relationships. She is a LicensedMarriage and Family Therapist and an active member of the American Association of SexualEducators, Counselors and Therapists (ASSECT). Tammy enjoys being an adjunct facultymember at Brigham Young University in the School of Family Life where she teaches hundredsof students each semester in Marriage Preparation, Marriage Enhancement and HealthySexuality in Marriage courses. Tammy owns a private counseling practice where she largelyworks with couples. She has free resources available on her website(http://www.tammyhill.com) where she also offers numerous Making Love Retreats,Honeymoon Workshops and Dating Bootcamps each year. Published in 2021, Tammy’s firstbook, “God Made Girls and Boys” is a beautiful children’s book addressing agency, gender,accountability, and hope in our Heavenly Parent’s eternal plan. Her second book, “Replenish:Creating Sexual Fulfillment in Marriage”, was published earlier this year. Most importantlyTammy is forever grateful to be a wife, mother and grandmother.Insights:Tammy: Humans are created with a capacity to have amazing sexual pleasure. Push yourself tolearn how to replenish each other.Dave: Make time to intentionally have sex with your partner.Liz: Monogamous does not have to mean monotonous.Invites:Instead of waiting for your partner to change, recognize the part you play inconflict and seek to change it without any guarantee that your partner will do thesame. You may find that your partner’s response to your change is exactly what youhoped.Examine whether there is contempt in your relationship. If you “horibilize” yourpartner by objectifying them and only seeing their faults and their weaknesses, youmight be guilty of contempt.As yourself, “ If I were to give my whole heart to my partner, what would it occurto me to do?”. Be still and then heed that inner call to connectTammy Hill Links:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tammy_hill_lmft/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/replenishyourmarriagePodcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5wSW6CZ431e8nJFCVMUyeZ  Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways:StrongerMarriage.orgpodcast.strongermarriage.orgFacebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeDr. Dave Schramm:https://drdaveschramm.comhttps://drdavespeaks.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSUFacebook Marriage Group: Happy Hacks: 101 Science-Backed Ways to Boost Happiness, Reduce Stress, and Build a More Meaningful Life.Available now starting at 99¢ on Amazon and Dave's Book StoreWritten by Dr. Dave Schramm, this practical and uplifting new book offers simple, research-based strategies to help you build greater happiness, strengthen resilience, reduceThe opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the Utah Marriage Commission.Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/