Overthinking, Avoiding, and Overchecking: The Psychology of Texting

In a world where we’re constantly connected, something as simple as texting can feel… unexpectedly heavy. You might find yourself overchecking your phone, overanalyzing tone, rewriting messages, or avoiding responding altogether.In this episode, EG explores the psychology behind texting patterns and habits, and how they’re all rooted in the same place: a desire for safe, predictable connection.EG shares personal reflections (including her own experience with avoidant texting) and walks through small, realistic shifts to make communication feel less overwhelming.This episode is for anyone who has ever stared at a text, overthought a reply, avoided responding, or wondered, “why am I like this?”Key Themes: nervous system responses, communication patterns, avoidant texting, overchecking, emotional safety, overthinking, tone analysis, trauma-informed care, connection and relationships, self-awarenessTrigger Warning: This podcast discusses sexual violence. See the episode description for more information. Please take care of yourself when listening.Lux Resources is a North Carolina-based 501(c)3 nonprofit that supports survivors of sexual violence through providing legal resources. Survivors can access resources and legal aid for free on our website, www.luxresources.org.Follow Lux on Instagram and TikTok @luxresources for behind-the-scenes content, episode updates, and more tips on supporting survivors and allies.Want to get in touch? Ideas for resources to add to the website? Podcast content suggestions? Reach out to us: https://www.luxresources.org/contact   If this episode resonated with you, make sure to share it with someone who might need it.