Pain is inevitable: suffering is optional

I chat with Dr Laura Petracek about unnecessary suffering. There is a famous saying: ”Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional”.

We all experience inevitable pain such as bereavement, separation, illness and ageing. Suffering is optional in that it is a function of how we react to the pain. Maladaptive coping strategies cause optional suffering. These include drug or alcohol misuse, or maladaptive psychological constructs such as wishing for a different outcome, anticipating the worst, ruminating on the outcome, or trying to change the outcome. Acceptance is the key to avoiding unnecessary suffering.

When we practice acceptance and focus on what we can control rather than what we can't, we can reduce our suffering and increase our resilience. This can include accepting the reality of the situation, letting go of our attachment to a specific outcome, and finding ways to move forward in a positive direction.

It's also worth noting that seeking support from others, such as friends, family, or a therapist, can be a helpful way to cope with pain and avoid unnecessary suffering. By sharing our experiences and emotions with others, we can feel less alone and gain new perspectives on our situation.

Discussions and comments in our videos are for informational purposes only and should not replace the advice of your medical professional. Please consult with your doctor before making any changes to your medical treatment or lifestyle.

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