Painting Someone from Golden to Black with The Story So Far

“Don’t paint me black when I used to be golden,” sings Parker Cannon of The Story So Far in Clairvoyant. Why do we sometimes rewrite our past relationships, turning once-beloved people into distant, even negative, memories? In this episode, I explore this emotional shift. Why it happens, whether it’s healthy, and how we can move forward. From personal experiences to universal feelings of nostalgia, resentment, and growth, let’s dive into how our perception of the past shapes our healing. Have you ever found yourself "painting someone black"? Let’s reflect together.