Palatable: What Happens When You Finally Stop Shrinking to Fit

If you've ever watered yourself down to make other people comfortable in your content, your relationships, your life. This episode is going to name exactly what that's been costing you.Krysta Paffrath made a post about playing small. Not the vague, inspirational kind. The specific kind where you realize you've been creating content designed not to offend anyone, following every strategy you were taught, and somewhere in the process stopped sounding like yourself entirely.In this conversation, Krysta and Michelle go to the place that usually stays off-mic. The grief of recognizing what the box cost you. The fear of being seen differently by people who knew the old version. The moment in your forties when you're done pretending. And what it actually feels like in your body when you are, and aren't, living like yourself.Krysta is a podcast manager turned 500-hour certified yoga teacher who found that the missing piece for women entrepreneurs wasn't more strategy. It was a regulated nervous system. This conversation covers both — and neither one sounds like a wellness lecture.There are tissues rolled up inside Michelle's yoga mat. That detail tells you everything about where this episode goes.What You'll Hear In This EpisodeWhy making yourself palatable is a pattern, not a personality — and how to tell the differenceWhat it actually costs you to stay in a box that no longer fitsWhy your nervous system is running your business decisions more than your strategy isHow to use stillness as a diagnostic tool — and what it reveals in the first five minutesWhy "you are not a tree" might be the most useful thing you hear this weekMentioned In This EpisodeThe Hour of Nothing — Hot Mess Magic solo episode (linked in show notes)Connect With Krysta Instagram: @krystapaffrath Threads: @krystapaffrath Website: krystapaffrath.comConnect With Michelle Instagram: @michelleaburke Resources & LinksSome links below are affiliate links. If you purchase through them I may earn a small commission at no cost to you — I only share things I actually use.Record your podcast with Riverside → https://riverside.sjv.io/hotmessmagicMirco Journey - What reach for when I need to connect with my body → https://themicrojourney.com/?ref=mburke - Use MBURKE at checkout to get 20% off.CBD for Life — what I reach for when my nervous system is fried → Get 20% off https://imp.i295461.net/aOm1Gq