Part 1: You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders | with Author Jay DeFazio episode artwork

EPISODE · Oct 30, 2025 · 31 MIN

Part 1: You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders | with Author Jay DeFazio

from SuperPumped Life · host Ben Walters

What does it mean to live as your truest self?In this episode, Ben Walters speaks with author Jay DeFazio, whose new memoir You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders chronicles his remarkable journey as a transgender man. Together they explore identity, resilience, and the freedom that comes from aligning who you are on the inside with how you show up in the world.Jay shares what it took to face fear, navigate change, and embrace both the challenges and joys of transition—reminding us that authenticity is a lifelong practice, not a destination.Websites:You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders: Get the book:https://bookshop.org/p/books/you-only-live-twice-a-memoir-in-two-genders-jay-defazio/cd97b43a7a1884c5https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FXZZ1156/⁠More from Jay and his memoir:https://youonlylivetwice-memoir.comhttps://www.insideout-transart.org   Book a complimentary 30-minute exploratory call:https://calendly.com/ben-superpumped/30minWebsite:https://superpumped.comBusiness launch readiness assessment:https://launchreadyassessment.scoreapp.comSocials and such:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/superpumped/https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/superpumpedlife/https://youtube.com/@superpumpedlifehttps://www.instagram.com/superpumped1https://www.tiktok.com/@superpumped8https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-walters-165168365/https://www.facebook.com/ben.walters.77770Chapters:00:00 – Living life authentically, twice over02:10 – Welcome to SuperPumped Life03:05 – Jay DeFazio’s story: becoming who he was meant to be05:20 – Writing You Only Live Twice08:40 – Transition, truth, and the courage to change12:15 – What authenticity really looks like in practice15:00 – Overcoming fear and finding belonging18:00 – Living beyond labels21:15 – The message behind You Only Live Twice24:00 – Closing reflections: what it means to live your second lifeDisclaimer:The information in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered medical, mental health, financial, legal, or professional advice. Guest opinions are their own. Always consult with a qualified professional before making medical, health, business, investment, legal, or personal decisions.

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