[Part 2] Relationship Expert Susan Quilliam on Love, Compatibility & Making It Work

In this episode, relationship psychologist Susan Quillian returns to unpack the subtle signs of a healthy connection—and the warning signals we often overlook. From emotional generosity to self-awareness and patience, we explore what truly makes love last. Whether you're dating, committed, or navigating single life, these insights are for you.Susan QuilliamPsychologist, coach & prolific author🧠 Over 30 years helping individuals and couples navigate love, intimacy, and emotional connection💌 Agony aunt for two decades, including a long-running advice column in Cosmopolitan📚 Author of 20+ books, including How to Choose a Partner and the modernized 2008 edition of The Joy of Sex🎧🔥❤️‍🔥FULL EPISODE LISTEN HERE❤️‍🔥🔥🎧  https://linktr.ee/thekollectiveinstituteofideas💚 Green Flags Matter: Look for signs of emotional availability, curiosity about your life, and mutual give-and-take.🚩 Red Flags to Watch: Beware of partners stuck in the past, dismissive of your needs, or emotionally unavailable during crisis.🧘‍♀️ Balance Is Key: Healthy relationships involve both partners being grounded in themselves and interested in each other.💬 Kindness Counts: How someone treats others—like servers or strangers—often reflects how they’ll treat you.🪞 Self-Love Builds Better Love: Knowing and loving yourself creates the strongest foundation for any relationship.🎯 Patience + Presence = Growth: Supporting each other through challenges fosters deep personal and relational development.🤯 Inner Conflict Is Normal: Being “torn” is part of being human—acknowledging it helps you move forward with clarity.🔦 Being Single Isn’t a Flaw: It’s a valuable season for reflection, healing, and reconnecting with who you are.🛟 Support Can Be Transformative: Whether through therapy, friendship, or coaching—seeking help is strength, not weakness.👉 Like 👍 | Share 🔁 | Subscribe 🔔 🔥 Fireside chat🔥: Favourite Quote: Just do it ❤️‍🔥 Loved this episode?✨ Like, Share, and Subscribe to support bold, heart-led conversations.💫 3 things you get joy from:People food & dance🧘 A mantra you want to embrace now would be: There is always an answer to everything. 🎬 A favourite film / book / artist — that isn't obvious (and why): Caravaggio WANT MORE OR TO SUPPORT?👉 Become a patron and get exclusive access & behind-the-scenes perks:www.patreon.com/TheKollective828 💎Mentions: The Torn Project🔍 Key Learnings from the Episode: