Partnership Parenting

I have been hearing a lot about exhausted moms lately and it made me curious. Why are many moms still bearing the brunt of the mental and emotional labor as well as many household tasks on top of a job? Why don't women speak up? What happens when they do? Is it easier to do it yourself? How do men feel about this? Do men feel that can't do it "right" anyway? I wanna hear from you. This is the start of a conversation. I would love to hear from men, woman, moms, dads as well as same sex couples and non-gender conforming couples. Let me know about the division of gender. Let's get this convo going.