Patriarchal Gaslighting Song

I’ve got the blues about trying figure out what to do about getting my ideological knickers in a knot. Because I’m not in one seemingly strongly mind camp or another when it comes to the main branches of what I perceive to be current day feminist ideology. So where the fuck do I start with ethics of being a slut when I can’t get a handle on the ethics of being a woman? I sing about it.