Patriarchy, "Bride Training" & Who Really Enforces the Rules with Tisa Chigaga

"Why is it that the only time that you will be attacked for questioning culture is when it has to do with gender?" — Tisa ChigagaFilmmaker Tisa Chigaga invites us into the story behind her short film, Bride of Zambia. She spotlights the pan-African tradition of the fattening room, kitchen parties, and how "bride-training" rituals enforce patriarchal norms—often perpetuated by women themselves.Tisa reveals the historical roots of teaching "obedience" to child brides and challenges the silencing of women's questions. She touches on harmful practices such as FGM that are led by women. This is a raw conversation about separating African culture from patriarchy, breaking cycles of sexual harm, and reclaiming agency.Watch Bride of Zambia on YouTube (Indie Films World).Please help us reach more women discovering their sexuality, healing from sexual trauma, and learning to love their bodies beyond society's beauty standards. Rate or follow The Fat and Horny Podcast on Spotify, Afripods or Apple Podcasts. It helps others find us, and we would love to have them in this community.More from us:Subscribe to the Young & Oversharing NewsletterFollow us on TikTok: @youngandoversharingSupport the podcast:If you want to hear more conversations like this, please support the podcast by buying us a coffee. Every dime and dollar counts when it comes to women's pleasure. Buy us a coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/foryoungwomen  Be a guest:If you are an expert in sex, sexuality, or sexual health, or you have a personal experience that taught you how to heal or reclaim your pleasure, we would love to have you on the show. Please send your pitch to [email protected] by Content is Queen.----------------------------------Keywords: patriarchy, Bride of Zambia, sexual harm, sex and sexuality, bride training, African culture, African traditions, child marriages