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EPISODE · Jan 6, 2025 · 22 MIN

People Pleasing Is Manipulation: How to Stop Controlling and Start Connecting

from The Anxious Creative · host Dawn Bradley

Welcome to this week’s episode, where we tackle a hard truth: people pleasing isn’t about kindness—it’s about control. If you’ve ever found yourself abandoning your needs to keep others happy, this conversation is for you.Here’s what we’re covering today:The surprising connection between people pleasing and controlWhy people pleasing often leads to resentment and burnoutHow to recognize self-abandonment in the momentCompassionate communication strategies for setting boundariesHow saying "yes" to yourself changes everything💡 Key Takeaways:People pleasing is born from a fear of unpredictability and rejection.Setting boundaries isn’t about saying “no” to others—it’s about saying “yes” to yourself.Honoring yourself doesn’t mean you stop caring for others; it means you stop dishonoring yourself in the process.If you've caught yourself thinking: "I wish everything wasn't so overwhelming," grab instant access to my free workshop: www.dawnbradley.com/freeclass. You'll learn a simple system to ditch the stress, work less, and make more—all while taking exceptional care of your clients.📚 Resources Mentioned:My program, Rock Your Business, teaches compassionate communication and boundary-setting to help you thrive in business and life. Learn more here.Timestamps for Key Topics:[00:00] Introduction to People Pleasing[01:09] Understanding the Roots of People Pleasing[04:19] The Impact of People Pleasing on Self-Identity[06:32] Recognizing and Addressing People Pleasing Behaviors[10:08] Setting Boundaries and Honoring Yourself[15:18] Shifting from Approval to Authenticity[21:41] Conclusion and Next Episode PreviewFollow me: Instagram: www.instagram.com/dawnbradleyYoutube: www.youtube.com/dawnbradley  For more info on RYB, Retreats etc -: www.dawnbradley.com

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Are you a recovering people pleaser—or still stuck in the cycle? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the truth behind people pleasing. Spoiler: it’s not about being “nice”; it’s about control. Learn how to identify the roots of your people-pleasing tendencies, uncover the fears driving your behavior, and discover compassionate communication strategies to help you break free. From personal stories to actionable tips, this episode will help you stop controlling and start connecting—on your terms.

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