People Pleasing Is Stealing From You

Episode 5 of the Learn To Heal with Lwanele Khasu podcast, hosted by Lwanele Khasu, titled "People Pleasing Is Stealing From You" was published on March 11, 2026 and runs 24 minutes.

March 11, 2026 ·24m · Learn To Heal with Lwanele Khasu

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Summary

People pleasing often starts as protection.As a way to stay safe.To stay liked.To stay connected.But over time, it begins to cost you.In this episode, we explore how people pleasing quietly steals your energy, your honesty, your boundaries, and even your sense of self. We talk about why it feels so hard to stop, where it may have been learned, and how self abandonment can disguise itself as kindness.If you constantly feel tired, resentful, or unseen in your relationships, this conversation is for you.You deserve connection that does not require you to disappear.Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych

Episode Description

People pleasing often starts as protection.

As a way to stay safe.

To stay liked.

To stay connected.

But over time, it begins to cost you.

In this episode, we explore how people pleasing quietly steals your energy, your honesty, your boundaries, and even your sense of self. We talk about why it feels so hard to stop, where it may have been learned, and how self abandonment can disguise itself as kindness.

If you constantly feel tired, resentful, or unseen in your relationships, this conversation is for you.

You deserve connection that does not require you to disappear.

Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.

See more resources below.

Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxiety

Follow Lwanele on Social Media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologist

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologist

Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych