EPISODE · Mar 11, 2026 · 24 MIN
People Pleasing Is Stealing From You
from Learn To Heal with Lwanele Khasu · host Lwanele Khasu
People pleasing often starts as protection.As a way to stay safe.To stay liked.To stay connected.But over time, it begins to cost you.In this episode, we explore how people pleasing quietly steals your energy, your honesty, your boundaries, and even your sense of self. We talk about why it feels so hard to stop, where it may have been learned, and how self abandonment can disguise itself as kindness.If you constantly feel tired, resentful, or unseen in your relationships, this conversation is for you.You deserve connection that does not require you to disappear.Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych
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People pleasing often starts as protection.As a way to stay safe.To stay liked.To stay connected.But over time, it begins to cost you.In this episode, we explore how people pleasing quietly steals your energy, your honesty, your boundaries, and even your sense of self. We talk about why it feels so hard to stop, where it may have been learned, and how self abandonment can disguise itself as kindness.If you constantly feel tired, resentful, or unseen in your relationships, this conversation is for you.You deserve connection that does not require you to disappear.Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych
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