People Pleasing, Regret, and Fingers in Butts

We talk about people pleasing, regret, dry fingers in butts, retroactively being upset, consent not taking place vs being violated, and members of oppressed groups thinking they can oppress others. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator, Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster, artist, musician, and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry.Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circle Facilitator. Her work is centered in divesting from binary thinking and disposability politics while supporting individual transformation in the context of community as part of a larger liberatory praxis. They are also a Surrogate Partner Therapist and advocate for Sex Workers’ rights. Mia made our silly music. Goodies for you that offer us a little kickback:You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms.Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies.Plot driven feature lengths.Soft stuff.