People will never forget how you made them feel

Why do we feel alive around some people and like we’ve been through the wringer when we are around others?  What’s going on for us when some people lift us up and with others we can feel as if it’s they have dropped us from a great height?  In this episode I’m exploring what’s going on from a psychodynamic perspective when we take on the energy of other people and consider ways that we can manage this so that we can feel better.Along the way we’ll meet the Grinch, the Dementors from Harry Potter, James Bond and Stan Wawrinka.  Now that would be a night out…Here are the highlights of this episode:(1.02) Feeling like the Grinch(4.07) Recollections may vary(5.12) Transference(8.34) ProjectionConnect with Julia:WebsiteLinkedInInstagramABOUT THE PODCASTThe Dynamics of Everyday Life explores the psychological patterns shaping how we think, work and relate to others; bringing psychodynamic thinking into coaching, leadership and everyday life.If you're a coach interested in learning more about psychodynamic approaches to coaching, you can explore Julia's training programmes on her website.FOLLOW THE PODCASTIf you're enjoying The Dynamics of Everyday Life, follow the podcast on your listening app so you don't miss future episodes.