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EPISODE · Oct 31, 2022 · 35 MIN

Permission to be Human: My Journey to Healing my Inner People Pleaser

from But, What If You Did?® · host Alyson Pallanck

In Episode 75, I'm sharing my journey to healing my inner people pleaser & inviting you to come along for the ride. "So if you're looking for permission to do something differently, seeking permission to try something new - consider this your sign from the universe. Permission Granted."But I'll let you in on a little secret... you don't need my permission - you only need your own!From the blog: "People pleasing… something I've been asked countless times to cover on the podcast and yet the timing never felt quite right. It's a conversation that has surfaced in many of my circles, under many different circumstances and yet because it wasn't front & center in my world - I wasn't sure what value I could add to conversation in that space. And then I started to notice a recurring theme in many of my 1:1 client sessions - from setting goals to ‘ditch the inner people pleaser’ to committing to action steps where ‘no’ is actually a full sentence, it seemed like the desire to heal this wound was surfacing at every corner. I was hearing it from peers, coworkers, executives in the hallway. It came up on nearly every coffee date with a friend. The message was loud and clear - millennials are done with people pleasing… And so I started to note the similar sentiments, observe the associated feelings, and to describe the environments in which these thoughts surfaced in my journal. And that was where I realized it was connected to this craving… this desire… for permission to come from an external source.  It wasn't all that long ago that I found myself in a similar place in life seeking external permission to make any change even when deep down I could feel what was aligned & right. So - WHAT CHANGED?  I stopped WAITING for permission and started to GIVE myself permission to do the things that felt right to me, even if it went against the grain."Ready to dive in?!Disclaimer: I am an educator. None of what is shared in these conversations should be taken as medical advice. Of course you should always consult your trusted healthcare provider before making any health related decisions. To Book an Astrology Reading: Click HERE  [Special rates and ala carte pricing available through end of September 2026] ** If you are looking for timing specifically please book the Zodiacal Releasing SessionFor Business Support - Please email [email protected]

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In Episode 75, I'm sharing my journey to healing my inner people pleaser & inviting you to come along for the ride. "So if you're looking for permission to do something differently, seeking permission to try something new - consider this your sign from the universe. Permission Granted." But I'll let you in on a little secret... you don't need my permission - you only need your own! From the blog: "People pleasing… something I've been asked countless times to cover on the po...

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